Stolen: A Memoir

Stolen: A Memoir

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  • Author:Elizabeth Gilpin
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Summary

A gripping chronicle of psychological manipulation and abuse at a “therapeutic” boarding school for troubled teens, and how one young woman fought to heal in the aftermath。

At fifteen, Elizabeth Gilpin was an honor student, a state-ranked swimmer and a rising soccer star, but behind closed doors her undiagnosed depression was wreaking havoc on her life。 Growing angrier by the day, she began skipping practices and drinking to excess。 At a loss, her parents turned to an educational consultant who suggested Elizabeth be enrolled in a behavioral modification program。 That recommendation would change her life forever。

The nightmare began when she was abducted from her bed in the middle of the night by hired professionals and dropped off deep in the woods of Appalachia。 Living with no real shelter was only the beginning of her ordeal: she was strip-searched, force-fed, her name was changed to a number and every moment was a test of physical survival。 

After three brutal months, Elizabeth was transferred to a boarding school in Southern Virginia that in reality functioned more like a prison。 Its curriculum revolved around a perverse form of group therapy where students were psychologically abused and humiliated。 Finally, at seventeen, Elizabeth convinced them she was rehabilitated enough to “graduate” and was released。

In this eye-opening and unflinching book, Elizabeth recalls the horrors she endured, the friends she lost to suicide and addiction, and—years later—how she was finally able to pick up the pieces of her life and reclaim her identity。

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thereadingowlvina (Elvina Ulrich)

Synopsis: At fifteen, Elizabeth Gilpin was an excellent student with a promising future ahead of her。 But her undiagnosed depression caused her to act in disruptive ways。 In order to save her, her parents consulted an educational consultant who suggested a behavioral modification program。 It began with her being abducted in the middle of the night, and dropped off in the woods of Appalachia, and after three brutal months, she is transferred to Carlbrook School ("theraupeutic" boarding school Synopsis: At fifteen, Elizabeth Gilpin was an excellent student with a promising future ahead of her。 But her undiagnosed depression caused her to act in disruptive ways。 In order to save her, her parents consulted an educational consultant who suggested a behavioral modification program。 It began with her being abducted in the middle of the night, and dropped off in the woods of Appalachia, and after three brutal months, she is transferred to Carlbrook School ("theraupeutic" boarding school) where she endured more psychological torment and humiliation until her graduation。 My thoughts: This was a gripping and heartbreaking memoir and I truly appreciate the author sharing her story。 It was really an eye-opening one as I did not know such facilities exist, nor did I know about the lucrative "troubled teen" industry。 I do not know how such facilities can still operate without scrutiny from authorities。 I was totally invested in Elizabeth's story and finished this book in one sitting! Her writing was so engaging, honest and emotional。 The workshops and programs she endured were clearly not helping the students。 Instead, they caused so much more psychological issues even after they graduated。This was one compelling memoir and I am so glad to have read it! Pub。 Date: July 20th, 2021***Thank you Grand Central Publishing and author Elizabeth Gilpin for this gifted copy to read and review。*** 。。。more

Katie

The true story of how Elizabeth Gilpin was kidnapped from her room in the middle of the night and taken to a behavioral modification camp。 Her parents had enough of her raging anger, bad attitude, and excessive drinking。 Their solution was to enroll her in a place that would change everything and bring back their little girl。 This is the story of how Elizabeth endured a disturbing and unreal series of places all in the name of changing her life。 I read this entire book in one sitting。 While it's The true story of how Elizabeth Gilpin was kidnapped from her room in the middle of the night and taken to a behavioral modification camp。 Her parents had enough of her raging anger, bad attitude, and excessive drinking。 Their solution was to enroll her in a place that would change everything and bring back their little girl。 This is the story of how Elizabeth endured a disturbing and unreal series of places all in the name of changing her life。 I read this entire book in one sitting。 While it's not the most in-depth or well-written memoir of all time, it was gripping。 The story is mind blowing, and it's absolutely crazy to think this was happening not that long ago。 Gilpin's memories will have you in disbelief from start to finish。Thank you so much to Grand Central Publishing for the free review copy! 。。。more

Krista

I couldn’t put this memoir down。 Gilpin’s language is so straightforward and unadorned that the reality of the horrors she lived through are starkly rendered。 Her strength to survive is impressive。 The labor it must have taken to write this book is even more so。 Recommended for fans of Educated or The Glass Castle。NetGalley provided me with an arc in exchange for an honest review。

Tiffany

Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for a DRC of this book。I've been in a memoir mood, and thought that the concept of this memoir looked interesting。 I had seen the reality TV shows about wilderness programs, where "troubled" teens were taken in the woods to learn how to be better people and had heard of "therapeutic" schools where these teens were ultimately sent in an effort to curb their "troublesome" behavior。 So Gilpin's memoir looked compelling。At the age of 15, Gilpin is living what Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for a DRC of this book。I've been in a memoir mood, and thought that the concept of this memoir looked interesting。 I had seen the reality TV shows about wilderness programs, where "troubled" teens were taken in the woods to learn how to be better people and had heard of "therapeutic" schools where these teens were ultimately sent in an effort to curb their "troublesome" behavior。 So Gilpin's memoir looked compelling。At the age of 15, Gilpin is living what sounds like a relatively normal teen life。 However, she pushes the boundaries and argues with her parents frequently than they would like。 Out of desperation, her parents decide to send her away。 They hire an escort company to essentially kidnap Gilpin out of her bed while she is sleeping and transport her to a wilderness program, where she has to live in the woods with other teenage girls until the program has deemed her reformed enough to be sent to a "therapeutic" high school。 There, the goal is not education but reformation。This memoir was, at times, painful to read。 Gilpin makes it clear that she was suffering from untreated mental health issues during the years before her kidnapping, which led to her acting out。 The trauma of the kidnapping, months in the wilderness program, and then years in the therapeutic high school brought was just horrible。 I ended up reading the last 75% of this book in one sitting。Overall, a compelling look at programs designed to help "troubled" youth from someone who experienced them。 Would recommend to anyone interested in these topics with the caveat that this is a memoir and as such one sided。 I am very much unread in this area, and can't speak to any sort of bias so I would recommend further reading。 。。。more

Jackson D。

An insightful and deeply moving book that I was unable to put down。 Having only a baseline knowledge of the troubled teen industry, I was taken aback by what the author outlined of her experience。 Ms。 Gilpin’s debut memoir displays not just incredible clarity of thought, but true bravery for the willingness to share the personal, gripping, and defining experiences that shape our lives。 The writing is eloquent and enthralling— a must-read。

Annabel

Elizabeth and I went through these programs together, so, of course, I relate to the experiences she describes in Stolen。 However, there are two things that I genuinely appreciate about this book: first, that she includes some of the more harrowing moments of our time there and, second, that she introduces the troubled teen industry as a whole。 This is a critical aspect of Stolen, as the troubled teen industry is not widely known, and our school is one among countless others。 For the general pub Elizabeth and I went through these programs together, so, of course, I relate to the experiences she describes in Stolen。 However, there are two things that I genuinely appreciate about this book: first, that she includes some of the more harrowing moments of our time there and, second, that she introduces the troubled teen industry as a whole。 This is a critical aspect of Stolen, as the troubled teen industry is not widely known, and our school is one among countless others。 For the general public, Stolen provides insight into an unregulated industry that deserves scrutiny。 For former students, it gives voice to our collective experiences in private programs like Carlbrook-stories that are often not told, and if they are, they are not believed。 。。。more

Anne

This was a well written book with an interesting and heartbreaking story。 The author tells some unimaginable truths and some of it is difficult to read, let alone live through。 All in all, it was a worthwhile book to read and the author did a good job getting her point across。

Christine Livinghouse

I loved this book!! The author writes with such clarity and colorful prose that I feel like I was right there with her as a youth enduring and persevering through the the many placement facilities and programs she was forced to reside in。 There is such horror as she recants her experiences and I rooted for her every step of the way as she let us in on her thoughts through many of the incidents of abuse。 If you have a child and if you have ever thought of 'sending them somewhere to make a differe I loved this book!! The author writes with such clarity and colorful prose that I feel like I was right there with her as a youth enduring and persevering through the the many placement facilities and programs she was forced to reside in。 There is such horror as she recants her experiences and I rooted for her every step of the way as she let us in on her thoughts through many of the incidents of abuse。 If you have a child and if you have ever thought of 'sending them somewhere to make a difference'。。。Don't。 。。。more

Melanie Gordon

Thank you to @grandcentralpub @netgallery for my gifted eARC!I have a lot of respect for the author for writing this book and speaking the truth surrounding her experiences-as I know it must have been hard to do and relive。 I also went through similar experiences being sent to a wilderness camp and an all girls boarding school during my high school years, so I could really relate to the author。With that being said, the writing lacked something for me-it did not pull me in as I was hoping it woul Thank you to @grandcentralpub @netgallery for my gifted eARC!I have a lot of respect for the author for writing this book and speaking the truth surrounding her experiences-as I know it must have been hard to do and relive。 I also went through similar experiences being sent to a wilderness camp and an all girls boarding school during my high school years, so I could really relate to the author。With that being said, the writing lacked something for me-it did not pull me in as I was hoping it would and kind of jumped all over the place。 I also feel like it was really long and drawn out, some parts could have been cut out or shortened。 However, I do feel that it is worth the read because it is an eye opening account of the truth behind facilities like this and the mental, physical, psychological, and emotional damage places like these have on teenagers。 What the author experienced was horrific, and I definitely get for her and my experience was somewhat relatable。 Overall, the book was a bit scattered and lacked that something that pulls me 。。。more

Gayle Spitz

Stolen is a phenomenal debut memoir from Ms。 Elizabeth Gilpin。 This book is a cautionary tale for any family exploring the possibility of sending a teenager to a wilderness bootcamp or a therapeutic boarding school。 It is very honest, brave and beautifully written。 A balanced, compelling and important piece of work。

Andrea Rauch

Overall Impression: Wow, this memoir reads like fiction, to the point that I keep forgetting that is really happened。 Stolen is a memoir written by Elizabeth Gilpin about her “troubled teen” years。 Elizabeth was torn out of bed in the middle of the night and brought to a camp for troubled teens where they spent days hiking or in group therapy and their nights in a tent alone with their boots confiscated so they couldn’t run away。 After the tortures of the camp, she is sent to a school in Virgini Overall Impression: Wow, this memoir reads like fiction, to the point that I keep forgetting that is really happened。 Stolen is a memoir written by Elizabeth Gilpin about her “troubled teen” years。 Elizabeth was torn out of bed in the middle of the night and brought to a camp for troubled teens where they spent days hiking or in group therapy and their nights in a tent alone with their boots confiscated so they couldn’t run away。 After the tortures of the camp, she is sent to a school in Virginia to continue the “work” done by the camp。I’m not even fully sure how to review this book, as it is about someone’s life, but to say this book is shocking is an understatement。 How anyone could think that programs like this are helpful is unfathomable。 Most of the kids in these programs were not criminals or addicts but unruly kids that parents didn’t know what else to do。 I’m not kidding when I say that I had to keep reminding myself that it is not fiction。 I’m sure Elizabeth’s story is not all that unique either, as this happened all over the country with many stories still untold。Go read this book, it is truly eye opening。 。。。more

Sara D

Thank you NetGalley & Grand Central Publishing for my gifted eARC in exchange for an honest review。I could not put this book down。 I am not even sure I read what I read。 What a terrifying, heartbreaking, eye opening book。 I wanted to scream, cry, shout at characters and along with the author。 And to think this is a memoir。 Holy cakes。 I have so much respect for Elizabeth and her story。 It reminds you, that you have no idea what anyone is going through。 We all fight demons and monsters。 But for s Thank you NetGalley & Grand Central Publishing for my gifted eARC in exchange for an honest review。I could not put this book down。 I am not even sure I read what I read。 What a terrifying, heartbreaking, eye opening book。 I wanted to scream, cry, shout at characters and along with the author。 And to think this is a memoir。 Holy cakes。 I have so much respect for Elizabeth and her story。 It reminds you, that you have no idea what anyone is going through。 We all fight demons and monsters。 But for some, those demons and monsters are our teachers, schools, peers and parents。 And that reminder is so completely terrifying。 So, do I recommend this book? A thousand times yes。 Elizabeth deserves to have her story heard。 。。。more

Kelly Long

Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for providing this book in exchange for an honest review。Wow, what an eye opener this book is。 This "therapeutic" boarding school was absolutely appalling in their treatment of these poor teenagers。 I can see that it did way more harm than good and really messed up the futures of a lot of these teens。 This book took a lot of courage to write。 I hope it has served as a beneficial part of Elizabeth Gilpin's healing。 Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for providing this book in exchange for an honest review。Wow, what an eye opener this book is。 This "therapeutic" boarding school was absolutely appalling in their treatment of these poor teenagers。 I can see that it did way more harm than good and really messed up the futures of a lot of these teens。 This book took a lot of courage to write。 I hope it has served as a beneficial part of Elizabeth Gilpin's healing。 。。。more

Alexis Stankewitz

*Thank you Grand Central Publishing, Elizabeth Gilpin and Netgalley for giving me a E-ARC of "Stolen" in exchange for an honest review。*This was a tough time read, but something everyone needs to read。 Reading about Elizabeth experience at Carlbrook was really eye-opening for me, and horrific because as a teen , I had to be placed in a Residential Treatment Facility , (thankfully not a place similar to Calbrook)。 Thank you again to Ms。 Gilpin especially for writing this book。 *Thank you Grand Central Publishing, Elizabeth Gilpin and Netgalley for giving me a E-ARC of "Stolen" in exchange for an honest review。*This was a tough time read, but something everyone needs to read。 Reading about Elizabeth experience at Carlbrook was really eye-opening for me, and horrific because as a teen , I had to be placed in a Residential Treatment Facility , (thankfully not a place similar to Calbrook)。 Thank you again to Ms。 Gilpin especially for writing this book。 。。。more

Mel

Stolen: A Memoir by Elizabeth Gilpin tells the story of Elizabeth Gilpin’s traumatic experiences at a supposedly “therapeutic” boarding school and the lasting impact this had on her。This book was an incredibly difficult read but one that is extremely important。 Through this book, Gilpin is able to shed light on the abuse and trauma perpetuated by schools such as the one she attended who claim that what they are doing is in the best interests of the students。 The accounts of events that happened Stolen: A Memoir by Elizabeth Gilpin tells the story of Elizabeth Gilpin’s traumatic experiences at a supposedly “therapeutic” boarding school and the lasting impact this had on her。This book was an incredibly difficult read but one that is extremely important。 Through this book, Gilpin is able to shed light on the abuse and trauma perpetuated by schools such as the one she attended who claim that what they are doing is in the best interests of the students。 The accounts of events that happened at the school while Gilpin was there are shocking and horrifying and really show why these institutions need to be called out, dismantled and I’d even go so far as to say criminalized。I really liked Gilpin’s writing style。 It is incredibly personal, poignant and moving which makes the book one that stays with you long after you’ve finished reading。Finally, the stories and experiences that Gilpin shares in this book are incredibly personal and in some ways could have been re-traumatizing for her。 However, she recognizes that this is a very important story to tell and I truly hope that her bravery and courage in telling this story brings about real change in regards to these institutions。I would highly recommend this book to anyone looking for an extremely personal and important yet difficult memoir which explores the dangers of “therapeutic” boarding schools and why they must be dismantled。Stolen: A Memoir by Elizabeth Gilpin will be released by Grand Central Publishing on July 20th 2021。 。。。more

Katy Alice

Update: Originally, I rated this memoir 3 stars。 I read an uncorrected ARC and felt there were some style and pacing issues that kept me from giving it a higher rating。 But nearly a week later I still find myself thinking about it and discussing it, which doesn’t happen often for me with memoirs。 I think Gilpin’s story will help a lot of people feel seen and will shine a light on a system that needs to be exposed。 So, ultimately, taking these things into consideration I believe it does deserve a Update: Originally, I rated this memoir 3 stars。 I read an uncorrected ARC and felt there were some style and pacing issues that kept me from giving it a higher rating。 But nearly a week later I still find myself thinking about it and discussing it, which doesn’t happen often for me with memoirs。 I think Gilpin’s story will help a lot of people feel seen and will shine a light on a system that needs to be exposed。 So, ultimately, taking these things into consideration I believe it does deserve a full star upgrade to a 4 star rating。 。。。more